You have the chance now to learn. I do not suggest that you abandon your duties to your family. Far from it, but if you give of yourself and accept little in return, you will wear yourself thin.

And, yes, at first I was afraid. I remember, when I was but a young girl, being filled with a dread that I could not explain, or waking in the night, my mind filled with shadows of things to come. In time, as I learned more of myself and honed my skills, the fear lessened.

Now, I do not fear what I may see, but rather what I might do. For foresight is but one of my gifts, as you say it is but one of yours. But that is a fear I would not lose; it is best that those with power have a keen awareness of the perils of it.